Internal Family Systems (IFS): Healing Through Parts Work
You are not just one voice. Inside each of us live many “parts”—the angry part, the perfectionist, the caretaker, the avoidant part, the one that longs for connection, and the one that just wants peace. Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy helps you listen to these voices—not to silence them, but to understand their role in your internal world.
At our North Sydney therapy space, we use IFS to support deep emotional healing by helping individuals and couples reconnect with their core Self—the calm, curious, compassionate centre within.
What Is IFS?
IFS is a non-pathologising, trauma-informed therapy model that views symptoms not as signs of brokenness, but as adaptations. It recognises that our internal world is made up of different parts that each hold a unique role in our emotional system. IFS helps you:
Identify and map your internal system of parts
Befriend protective parts like the inner critic or the people-pleaser
Access exiled parts that carry pain, shame, or unmet needs
Lead with Self energy—characterised by curiosity, compassion, and calm
Rather than forcing change, IFS supports healing by building an inner relationship based on trust and understanding.
Why It Works
Many people feel like they’re in constant internal conflict—part of them wants connection, while another part wants to run. One part longs for intimacy, another fears it. IFS provides a framework to:
Make sense of your inner conflicts
Understand why certain emotions feel overwhelming
Heal emotional wounds at their origin
Cultivate more self-compassion and clarity
IFS in Couples Therapy
Relationships often activate our parts. In couples therapy, we use IFS to:
Help partners recognise and name the parts that show up during conflict
Create space for emotional expression without blame
Reduce reactivity by identifying protective patterns
Foster deeper empathy as each partner learns to see their own and each other’s parts with compassion
When both partners lead more from Self and less from their defensive parts, the relationship becomes a space of healing rather than re-wounding.
North Sydney IFS Therapy
If you feel like you’re constantly battling parts of yourself—or if conflict in your relationship feels stuck and cyclical—IFS can offer a new way forward. We integrate parts work into both individual and couples therapy for deeper emotional insight and healing.
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Explore IFS therapy in-person or online and reconnect with your Self.