Jealousy in Open Relationships: A Path to Self-Awareness

Jealousy is not a sign that something is wrong. In open and non-monogamous relationships, it’s often a doorway into deeper self-awareness, emotional healing, and relational growth.

At our North Sydney therapy practice, we work with individuals and couples to explore jealousy with compassion—not as a problem to fix, but as a message from within.

Understanding the Roots of Jealousy

Jealousy may point to:

  • Fears of abandonment or exclusion

  • Insecure attachment patterns

  • Old relational wounds resurfacing

  • Unmet needs or unspoken agreements

Rather than suppressing jealousy or shaming yourself, therapy helps you befriend it—so it can become a teacher, not a threat.

In Therapy, We Explore

  • What part of you feels threatened, unseen, or unworthy

  • Where jealousy lives in the body and nervous system

  • How to express jealousy without blame or control

  • Ways to co-regulate and ask for emotional reassurance

Couples and Jealousy

For couples navigating open relationships, jealousy is often a shared experience. In therapy, we:

  • Create language for naming jealousy safely

  • Support one partner without shaming the other

  • Explore what emotional safety looks like for each person

  • Co-create rituals of connection and care

North Sydney Therapy for Jealousy in ENM

You don’t have to fight jealousy alone. Therapy can help you meet it with presence, understanding, and skill.

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We offer online and in-person therapy in North Sydney for individuals and couples in open or non-monogamous relationships.

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